Ok, let's take a minute and talk about how exactly to "holla" at someone. This is mostly for guys, since usually it's them who's doing the work in this area. First and foremost, style. If a guy doesn't have style he's not even gonna be considered as someone who's worthy of having a girl's phone number. As in style i mean smelling good, dressing well, being nice and last but definitely not least being attractive. Attractive doesn't always mean being a model, but i mean... you have to be cute at least. Next, you have to know how to approach a girl. You can't walk up to her feeling like you're a million bucks and come up to her with "ayo, ma lemme holla" i mean, seriously. That's so NOT cute. Not only is it ghetto and corny it's so......unoriginal. Also, you can't have one of those super corny pick up lines like "i hope you know CPR, because you took my breath away." i mean.. seriously. If someone came at me with that line i wouldn't even have words to say... but really. Another important factor of having game is how nice you are If you're too sweet to a girl sometimes it can be taken as 1 of 3 things. 1. you're obsessed with her. 2. you've never had a girl and are desperate. 3. you're a stage 5 clinger. trust me when I say that being considered any of those is NOT game material. i promise. Obviously you have to be nice and cute, but too much can be suffocating. (depending on the person, though. some girls love it) Especially for the clingers, oh my goodness gracious those are CRAZY! You know what I mean... those guys who text you 24/7 asking you what you're doing, where you are, what you ate for lunch. REALLY? who are you, my mom? NO. Then there's those guys who you'll hang out with, then they text you 3 seconds after they leave say they miss you so much. Come on, now. seriously, you're not even out of my street yet and you miss me? LOL, sometimes it can be cute but like...all the time? I don't think so. Lastly, in order to have game, you need to be slick. Know when to say cute things & know when to hug her or kiss her. Don't be all up in her mix, that's just straight up annoying. It's like an annoying mosquito that keeps flying around you and you just wanna swat it. I don't think I know anyone who likes mosquitos.. but really. k, i'm done. bye :)
