When it comes to a guy falling in love, would you rather be one of his trophies or his gamechanger? personally, I'd want to be the gamechanger, as would so many other girls in this world. I'd want to be the reason he changes his ways because he doesn't want to lose me. I'd want to be the girl that shows him that love is real. I'd want to be the reason why he's happy all the time and the reason he smiles even through some of his hardest times. Today, there are a million girls who are just trophies for guys. They're something he can show off that he got to be a part of. Most guys just hit it & quit it so they can show their boys that they could get with a certain girl. Then what do they do? Move on to the next trophy. Most trophies are pretty easy to get with a little effort, but the gamechanger is the trophy that they guy works hard for and does anything he has to do to reach.
Someone told me that girls are like apples on a tree. The bad, easy ones are on the bottom of the tree, within an arms reach where anyone can get to, but the girls worth reaching for are at the top. Why? Because they have flavor and have been maturing for longer. So as girls, we have to give ourselves respect and not let guys be able to get to us whenever they want, like we're at the bottom of the tree. We have to be worked for and we have to be shown that we're worth changing the game. But, at the end of the day, if a guy is changing his game for you and getting rid of all his trophies, he really loves you. Don't let him go.
