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Tuesday, March 22, 2011

Two-Way Friendships

Sorry that i've been slackin' lately everyone; Senior year is way more stressful than I thought. Anyways, I've wanted to rant about this topic for a while but haven't had the time. So, here we go.
You know what I hate? When you see someone who you haven't talked to in a while or someone who you used to be really close with and you just don't talk to them anymore and when they see you again they go "omg it's been so long, you don't even hit me up anymore!" like.. WHAT !? Last time I checked, the phone works both ways. In the past month i've literally heard that phrase like twenty times. I mean, there are certain people that I can go months without talking to and when we talk again it seems like nothing ever changed, which is great. Those people I don't mind when they say that because I know that we've both been busy and certain situations make it so that we can't hang out a lot or talk which is completely understandable, and I still love them so much and consider them my besties and stuff (shoutout to my besty KASSY ! xoxox love you babygirl) but when it's a person who can clearly text you or call you... UGH I get so annoyed. Like, do you have fingers and a phone? Cool, use them and text ME for once. Sometimes I feel like i'm always the one that has to text or call people first and it gets so annoyinggg! Literally, at times I feel like i'm bothering people because i'm always the one who has to text them first and see how they're doing. Not to be selfish, but don't you think sometimes people should check up on me? Maybe it's too much to ask, but seriously. It's crazy. Its the worst when its someone you don't like, though. Then they see you and go "omg, hey stranger! you don't even text me anymore or anything.." Like umm....... yeah, that's because you're mean and I don't really like you/wanna talk to you so....yeah. It sounds mean, but anyone who knows me understands what I mean. Like ex boyfriends for example...why would I have any desire whatsoever to text you or talk to you? You're a jerk and try to be something you're not and I just think you're annoying and a liar so why would I want to associate with you in any way shape or form? I wouldn't ! That answers your question as to why I don't text you, now doesn't it? UGH, sorry I had to let that out.
But no, you know what else I hate? When people only text you when they need something or want to know information or gossip. Like.. if you're going to waste my time and only text me because you want to be nosey, you will get ignored. but seriously. There are times when I get texts from people and I get so annoyed by what they say that I don't respond. The other day I got one that said "did we have hw in (insert class here) last night." First of all, is that even a question? Are you making a statement or does your phone not have a question mark? Second of all, WHY ARE YOU ASKING ME OUT OF ALL PEOPLE IN OUR CLASS? Third of all... can't you say hi and try to start a conversation first before you ask me? Like, at least pretend that you have one ounce of care in the world about my day or something, please. I mean, sometimes I answer if I like the person, but other times I just ignore them and get frustrated. I know i'm not alone when I say that I hate being used. It's so annoying to feel like someone only wants to talk to you because they need something from you. It sucks. But anyways, yeah. That's about it. Bye :)